"To do harm to the character, nature, or attitude of by oversolicitude, overindulgence, or excessive praise."
Why else would dirty clothes be left laying around, you know a pair of sock here or there. Shoes left where they have been kicked off, dirty dishes in the livingroom. A dirty pan left on the stove top.
It is as if it was all left for me to care for! Add to that, the responsibility of planning, and cooking, three meals a day. Being able to produce a gourmet snack at any moment.
"Quite frankly, yes!"